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  • blackhawknj
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2011
    • 3754

    #1

    Tis the season.....

    ....for charitable giving, which I do next to none of anymore, not because I am the Grinch or Scrooge, rather I think there is a difference between the deserving and the undeserving, the latter are well provided for-too well provided for, through taxpayer dollars. In Philadelphia last year there was a horrible fire, 3 adults and 9 children killed. The cause was blamed on a child playing with matches. I note the liberal media didn't milk the story, It was reported that they were living in 4 rooms, the media acknowledged that for some crowded living conditions are the norm, Philadelphia has a long waiting list for subsidized housing and has built none in years. Recall an article in one of the New York newspapers-from 1966, the Lindsay Administration had made "slumlords" Public Enemy No. 1. One walked into Housing Court, told the judge "I can't take care of my properties-my tenants won't let me." The story quoted him "I only rent to the legal number. But Lord how the aunts and uncles and cousins pile in."The reporter who wrote the story noted "The halls reek of urine and wine."
    People-usually from churches-who have volunteered at the local soup kitchens have noted the sense of entitlement, the arrogance and conceit of many of the patrons and say many should be sent to Weight Watchers.
    My church has a warmth tree, the watch caps I contribute are all ones I have found while walking or bicycling, put them in the laundry and.....
    I am a fan of the English 3-speed bicycle. Found a nice 1974 Raleigh at a yard sale-$30.00-a few years ago, got it home, looked at it, looked at it....it was the 23" frame which is too big for me. Gave to a friend who is the pastor of a church, he gave to a fellow who has "developmental" problems-he uses it to get to work.
    One church had a generous toy distribution program-they insisted on NIB, still wrapped. They found that many "parents" were returning or selling them to buy tobacco and alcohol. My church has an Angel Tree, one woman took a request for a Peppa Pig playset-she found it costs $90.00. We have a $25 limit on toys now. A few years ago I took a request for a tricycle for a 3 year old, found a nice sturdy shiny red one at the Trenton Bike Exchange-$15.00.
  • Allen
    Moderator
    • Sep 2009
    • 10580

    #2
    Sad but all true.

    We've fallen into the same path. We use to donate pretty good and liked to support certain organizations. Our mail box use to fill up with donation request, some of which were obvious scams. What we noticed was that when the request would dry up (in our mail box) we could make a contribution to most any well known "non-profit" organization (I won't mention names) and within 3 or 4 days our mail box would be full again showing that these outfits sell your names/address and no doubt how much you sent in.

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    • dogtag
      Senior Member
      • Sep 2009
      • 14985

      #3
      I live in Marin (wealthy place) so I hadn't locked my car
      when out for years. Two weeks ago someone stole a box
      of cigars from the back seat.
      The spare wheel for my old truck was always in the bed
      as storing it under the truck is a hassle.
      Last week somebody stole it.
      "Times they are a changing"

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      • Allen
        Moderator
        • Sep 2009
        • 10580

        #4
        Originally posted by dogtag
        I live in Marin (wealthy place) so I hadn't locked my car
        when out for years. Two weeks ago someone stole a box
        of cigars from the back seat.
        The spare wheel for my old truck was always in the bed
        as storing it under the truck is a hassle.
        Last week somebody stole it.
        "Times they are a changing"
        The thief did you a favor.

        You shouldn't be smoking, especially cigars. (kids probably)

        You shouldn't be driving around with a spare tire--you might be tempted to change it in an emergency situation and use the crappy factory jack that came with your truck. Keep the spare at home. Buy a floor jack. In an emergency call a tow truck to take you and your truck home then change the tire safely using your floor jack.

        If you find the thief send him a thank you card.

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        • dogtag
          Senior Member
          • Sep 2009
          • 14985

          #5
          I'm 86 and as I told my Doctor - I;m not giving up cigars,
          eggs, bacon or sausages, Nor am I giving up my Bourbon
          and G&Ts. I'm doing fine and I'm not going to live out the
          time I have left in misery longing for a drink and a smoke.
          He surrendered.

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          • Allen
            Moderator
            • Sep 2009
            • 10580

            #6
            Originally posted by dogtag
            I'm 86 and as I told my Doctor - I;m not giving up cigars,
            eggs, bacon or sausages, Nor am I giving up my Bourbon
            and G&Ts. I'm doing fine and I'm not going to live out the
            time I have left in misery longing for a drink and a smoke.
            He surrendered.
            Great.

            The only thing I've given up is doctors.

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            • dogtag
              Senior Member
              • Sep 2009
              • 14985

              #7
              Years back with my previous Doctor I was given
              an electro cardiagram (or something) where they
              shaved my chest and stuck wires all over me.
              When it was done I sat up and cried out "I'm Alive,
              I'm Alive.
              No reaction. obviously no sense of humor, or they
              hadn't seen the movie.

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              • blackhawknj
                Senior Member
                • Aug 2011
                • 3754

                #8
                I recall oneof the Canadian members noting that in the Dominion the so-called "distressed families" always have money for beer and weed and the kids have be to enrolled in school nutrition programs. Another member said his school teacher wife found the teenage girls in her school were intimately acquainted with the welfare forms.

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                • Vern Humphrey
                  Administrator - OFC
                  • Aug 2009
                  • 15875

                  #9
                  Originally posted by blackhawknj
                  I recall oneof the Canadian members noting that in the Dominion the so-called "distressed families" always have money for beer and weed and the kids have be to enrolled in school nutrition programs. Another member said his school teacher wife found the teenage girls in her school were intimately acquainted with the welfare forms.
                  And that's different from the United States, how?

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                  • blackhawknj
                    Senior Member
                    • Aug 2011
                    • 3754

                    #10
                    The UK has an illegitimacy rate of 40%-"breeding to get on the Social". Here in NJ a judge told a welfare queen-who appeared before him as a plaintiff-that she was using her children as "meal tickets."

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                    • Vern Humphrey
                      Administrator - OFC
                      • Aug 2009
                      • 15875

                      #11
                      Originally posted by blackhawknj
                      The UK has an illegitimacy rate of 40%-"breeding to get on the Social". Here in NJ a judge told a welfare queen-who appeared before him as a plaintiff-that she was using her children as "meal tickets."
                      And he was dead right. I say we regard people on welfare as our employees. Most people are on welfare because they have children -- we are in effect hiring them to be parents. We have a right to expect them to be GOOD parents. And if their kids are skipping school, making bad grades, etc., their welfare should be cut.

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                      • Allen
                        Moderator
                        • Sep 2009
                        • 10580

                        #12
                        Welfare, in most cases, should only be temporary. Just like unemployment compensation.

                        Anyone who collects for any reason should have to give a damn good reason why. Having kids is not a reason. That is preventable and I don't mean abortion.

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                        • Vern Humphrey
                          Administrator - OFC
                          • Aug 2009
                          • 15875

                          #13
                          Welfare was created as a bribe -- so poor people wouldn't burn the country down.

                          An alternative would have been to educate them, but, hey that would require the Public School System to actually WORK.

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                          • Allen
                            Moderator
                            • Sep 2009
                            • 10580

                            #14
                            Prison sentences too w/o early out would have done it. It seemed to work in every other country.

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                            • dryheat
                              Senior Member
                              • Sep 2009
                              • 10587

                              #15
                              Originally posted by dogtag
                              I'm 86 and as I told my Doctor - I;m not giving up cigars,
                              eggs, bacon or sausages, Nor am I giving up my Bourbon
                              and G&Ts. I'm doing fine and I'm not going to live out the
                              time I have left in misery longing for a drink and a smoke.
                              He surrendered.
                              The flip side to that is, you can live another two years... if you eat beets everyday. I could name a half dozen people I knew who didn't make 70. Anything after this is all free and I don't have to eat beets.
                              If I should die before I wake...great,a little more sleep.

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